Life is a constant struggle and it throws new challenges every day. As soon as one is able to answer some of the challenges, a new one crops up. I feel it must be with most people who have crossed quarter of there life, they must be facing this quarter life crises to find Mr. and Miss. Right. By passing a quarter of life, one is able to just answer some of his/her challenges in the professional field and, suddenly we realize a new challenge is standing in front of most of us i.e. to search for Mr. and Miss. Right. And then starts the never ending internet search on matrimonial sites, on matrimonial pages, phone calls, answering some silly questions, meeting the prospective family ….. I wish if we could have a Google application to search Mr./Miss Right.
I am yet to come across a person who doesn’t believe in the institution of marriage. "But you should get married to the person with whom you are fully convinced with", they don’t forget to add this caution phrase. And from here starts a never ending list or fantasies about Mr./Miss Right. It ranges from educational qualification to colour of his skin, from the salary package to how many brothers/sisters he has, from his community/cast to his height, from his personal habits to matching of all 36 guna of your kundali, from social status of family to the nature of Mr. Right and the list of fantasies goes on and on……….
Some people are fortunate enough who believe that they have found there Mr./Miss. Right (before any one could have told them to find one) but is this Mr. Right going to remain Mr. Right forever?? And for these fortunate ones, it is the beginning of convincing parents, making them believe that you would be happy with him/her only, seeking support from friends,relatives………
Well, the couples/marriages who/which have survived the test of time, I feel, are the biggest critics of each other. So if he is Mr./Miss. Right, then everything should be just perfect!! There should be no scope for criticism. In my opinion, there is nothing by the name of Mr./Miss. Right but there could be a probable Mr./Miss Right. God has made all of us imperfect, so one should not be attached to the idea of perfection. If you might have come across this probable Mr./Miss. Right, don’t let him/her go as perfect Mr./Miss right might not exist.
And remember the secret of happy marriage will always remain secret !!!
I am yet to come across a person who doesn’t believe in the institution of marriage. "But you should get married to the person with whom you are fully convinced with", they don’t forget to add this caution phrase. And from here starts a never ending list or fantasies about Mr./Miss Right. It ranges from educational qualification to colour of his skin, from the salary package to how many brothers/sisters he has, from his community/cast to his height, from his personal habits to matching of all 36 guna of your kundali, from social status of family to the nature of Mr. Right and the list of fantasies goes on and on……….
Some people are fortunate enough who believe that they have found there Mr./Miss. Right (before any one could have told them to find one) but is this Mr. Right going to remain Mr. Right forever?? And for these fortunate ones, it is the beginning of convincing parents, making them believe that you would be happy with him/her only, seeking support from friends,relatives………
Well, the couples/marriages who/which have survived the test of time, I feel, are the biggest critics of each other. So if he is Mr./Miss. Right, then everything should be just perfect!! There should be no scope for criticism. In my opinion, there is nothing by the name of Mr./Miss. Right but there could be a probable Mr./Miss Right. God has made all of us imperfect, so one should not be attached to the idea of perfection. If you might have come across this probable Mr./Miss. Right, don’t let him/her go as perfect Mr./Miss right might not exist.
And remember the secret of happy marriage will always remain secret !!!
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